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Beloved Brother, Husband, Father, and Friend.
Last Thanksgiving we participated in the StoryCorps “The Great Thanksgiving Listening” project by interviewing Grandfather. When we asked him what he most hoped to be remembered for in his life he said, “To be remembered as someone who always helped my family.” Captured on that recording is my immediate response of, “Well done, Dad. Well done. That is EXACTLY how I describe you to others.” It was one of life’s precious few perfect moments. It brought me great peace then and it continues to comfort me through this time of profound loss.
My father lived for his family. I remember fondly the last time he made his way to meet me at the tire shop. He was 80 and at 47, practically speaking, I was old enough to take care of myself. It was cold. He shuffled in slowed by his years but with the same compassionate expression. One that seemed to convey, “What luck Kiddo.” It was a smile that I had seen so many times in my life. It signaled that everything would be just fine. He was there. He just sat with me. To talk. To keep me company. To help. The very thing that my father wished to be remembered for will indeed endure. As with all those he touched with his generosity and helped in his lifetime - his legacy will live on in me through the memories that we shared.
The “Great Listening” may have been our last interview with Grandfather but it was just the beginning of our commitment to tell and retell his stories to both remember and honor him. We would love for you to join us. Please share your story here.
-Caroline Keating
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